welcome to the boards as well, 40mm is a little too small for my liking, and I have a rather smaller wrist myself, I would look at the 43 or larger series, but I do have a 40mm diver that wears really well, it's this one right here.
I ordered this Prro diver 8933 for almost nuthing at 88% off.
But its actually a 38mm case and is too small for what I like.
So I gave it away on one of the forums I'm on!
Do a Google search for it and you'll find it.
Where I bought it from isn't listed on here as a supporter of the Forum so I'll not name it.